#THINGS CRACK HEAD BOBBY SAY PLUS#

While El on the other hand, had the good fortune to live to adulthood and be blessed with talent but he's STILL fucking up. A child will be paying for this mistake for the rest of his life. Maybe if she loved herself more, she woulda made better choices and her son wouldn't be getting tried as an adult right now. So while he was running the streets and getting into shit, his mother was at home on Section 8, smoking crack, with the drug dealer she let move in with her and her 3 kids. On a side note, this weekend the 15 year-old nephew of a close friend of mine accidentally killed his best friend with a gun. Maybe if her sister loved herself more to make better decisions, her whole family would be alive right now. Just look at Jennifer Hudson's situation. Women in general, and black women especially, have major self-esteem issues that often end up hurting their kids. You saw what she said about him when she first met him: 'I didn't think he'd like me because I was too dark.' And went on, married the man and he turned out to be an asshole. Also, I thought she said he also sexually abused the boys especially Bobby. I don't get it either cuz that muthafucka would be dead. All we can do as lovers of their music is just hope that they get their personal shit straight. And regardless of their 'conservative Christian background', most of them have lived reckless lives. When you physically abuse your sons and sexually abuse your eldest daughter, ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. I still don't get how she stayed married to him for 21 years. So it's time to pay the piper and be accountable. But El and his brothers have continued with the poor choices well into adulthood. Even people that do dumb shit eventually grow out of it. The Debarges had more reason than most (their talent) to get it together and STILL haven't.

But my point is that tons of people have horrific childhoods and they either do what they can to get healed from the trauma OR they succumb to dumb shit like drugs and crime. Yeah, I'm well aware of what they went through and it's tragic. All we can do as lovers of their music is just hope that they get their personal shit straight but hell some of them were 20 years deep in it before it was almost too late. All of that is what has lead up to this point.

How he molested her daughter and how the boys were abused. She promoted it on the Tom Joyner show and she discussed how their father left her with all of those kids. His mother wrote a book that just came out about her family's problems with addiction. I think it's because of the background of his family that people tend to feel pity for him. I don't think they feel sorry for him as a person. It's just sad, the man could probably have tried to seek some serious help and counseling, but I guess he's not too sane to even do that, much less work on anything. All that time Motown was trying to make them wholesome and they turn out to be worser than Whitney and look how far her career has dropped.

Hell, isn't he a grandfather now? ELEVEN KIDS, some say he may got more. E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator So, as we say in the South, no betta for him. I could give him a pass if he was in his 20s but he's not, he's almost 50 and still doing dumb shit. Yeah, they had a fucked up childhood, but at some point you gotta grow up and deal with your demons and be accountable for your actions AND well-being. But I sure as hell am not sending any pity his way on THIS one. I get that he's talented and I too, am a fan. Eldra doesn't need to make a musical comeback, he needs some damn therapy and get away from everything, otherwise he's gonna end up like Bobby. That's why there's too many musicians and celebrities who lead self-destructive lives only to die a tragedy. At the end of the day, you make your own decisions. I can't blame his parents or Motown on this. Brother probably had like 20 chances to get it together and he chose to go down the self-destructive path. So, I'm sorry but I don't get all this lament and pity being thrown his way, when this dude is a grown ass muthafucka that wouldn't learn.Įxactly.

#THINGS CRACK HEAD BOBBY SAY PLUS#

He chose not to, PLUS chose to repeatedly break the law, and is now reaping the results of his choices. El had many chances and opportunies, moreso than the average crackhead, to get clean and change his life. I can't believe some of ya'll are going on like this about an almost 50 year-old crackhead like it's the end of the world.

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